An empty sky
The First Time My Heart Broke, I knew that all l the 'lessons' I'd 'learned' were empty.
I could have learned them in a softer way.
But it's hard; defending my right to not be hurt is to declare - "there's something worth loving here!".
I am undeserving of such softness.
this may sound harsh, but as a woman you cannot surround yourself with a bunch of miserable women and thrive. i know everyone has their moments and goes through things but some are just internally miserable & will never be able to uplift you or genuinely be happy for you.
Things I pick up during a conversation with a man who is interested that I consider to be green flags that may not be so commonly spoken about:
- He mentions meal prepping or having some type of structure for his healthy eating habits
- He mentions doing errands/favors for his mom/sisters like it’s ordinary
- He mentions planning things frequently or outsourcing the planning
- He has regularly scheduled appointments related to grooming
- He purchases what he needs 80% of the time vs what he wants
